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| 12/2/2004 23:57 | שרה | מאת: |
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sorry I dont have hebrew... so let me announce my baby girl! |
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remember my posting about bleeding and low placenta? well, I was thinking positive and knew I will do it! my midwife warned me that if I start bleeding, I go stright to hospital! I knew what it means: induction and if it doesn't progress then c setion. boy, I was scared, knew it no way for me!! i sensed baby waned to be born early at like 34 weeks. I told baby hang on!! u need to develop. if u need born out fast, I will relax let you in 37 weeks. ok? all week from 36, I had braxton hicks contractions on and off... so yestreday had some contractions, no big deal braxton hicks like i had all week. it always started in darkness. so I thought nothing of it. my dh wanted to see the UC birth video, I told him is that ok for you will see private parts of women pushing baby out? he begged me to see it. ok fine! I wanted to eat dinner. but the contractions bothered me. I said stop stop!! then it stopped. I ate yummy barley- mushroom-chiken soup. ate about 3 full plates! then I felt something warm in my underwear. I said oh maybe water broke? impossible!! its just 3 weeks early! anyway went to bathroom, freaked out! it was indeed - bright red blood stains! same which my midwife warned me from them that it means placental problems that I will need to go to hospital immediately. I didn't know what to expect in hospital.. induction? emergency c setion? no way!! I didn't want to go! but I didn't want to have the baby or me harmed... I thought, well I will see! then I posted in Cbirth, waned to see what other girls have to say, since all information I had about bleeding was negative scary information. I simply couldn't figure out how can it turn wrong! but I wondered what if the placenta will abrupt? what if its previa? what if I will hemmohrage? what if what if!! I chatted online with someone who had similiar experience about postpartum bleeding.. she mentioned cayenne tincture can stop it. also i looked in http://www.unhindered.com website how to stop bleeding before during and after. well, if it doesn't run run blood then I can wait!! then that friend I talked online with encouraged me to check if I am dilated. I was afraid what if I am not dilated at all and its just will deteriorate to hemmohrage? anyway I checked. I was shocked to find I am 3 cm already.. impossible !! I wasn't in pain.. with my shalom, at 3 cm I was already howling for dead! just before I went to the hospital. and back then it was every 3 mintues. now it was irregular, between 20 mintues, 10 minutes, 5 minutes then nothing... for hours. well that labor was picnic! but I told myself, no way, I can't be too happy, let me see what will I go through until birth! the contractions become more close to each other but irregular. sometimes eveyr 5 mintues, every 10 minutes then every 3 minutes then half hour break... every contraction I got on my knees and hands and rocked back and forth, while I typed IM on the comptuer. my friends and family IM me I didn't tell them anything. i knew they will freak out will tell me to run to the hospital!! then I got in bath to relax. got on my knees and rocked back and forth. then got out and walked around.. every contraction rocked back and forth more and more furiously. I supported myself on the table and rocked so hard all table shaked. went to bathroom needed to poo alot! so I saw the bleeding slowed down and it turned into bloody mucus.. so that was fine with me. I had to go to sleep! I was crazy tired so dizzy sleep deprived. it was already 4:00 in the morning. so I put pillows alot of them so I could lie on my left side to sleep! it wasn't sleep, on off and waking up to brutal contractinon, that forced me to get up on fours and rock back and forth uncontrolably. my dh got up for work on 4:30. I told him, hey, I am laboring please stay home with me!!! he said ok ok.. he cancelled his workday to deliver. instead of going to work at 5:00 he stayed sleeping. but when he woke up, a big contraction got me up and I walked around and rocked back and forth.. my dh was on computer. my son all sudden was whiny, he run from the bed and asked pick me up. I walked and walked and rocked, also lifted legs like aerobic exercise. I didnt' moan but I breathed ohhh! then had to go to the bath again. it was already time 7:00 am. I filled the bath up. then the contractions became bearable. the more intense it became the less I rocked. I just stood on my knees and held the bath in front and shaked my body so little that anyone who might look will think I stand still. when contraction was over I just sit down and rest. I check myself again. well... its 4 cm or 5. impossible to be more than that! at 8:00 i checked again.. then it was 5 or 6 cm I just guessed with my unproffesional finger. it felt like ring open to a rubber center that I could estimate it could fit 5 or 6 fingers snuggly. I had more blood clots coming out. nothing progressed. I felt painful more and more, while stuck at 5 - 7 cm.. I figured out I need something to get things going.. to remove the obtacle from my muscles and nerves.. I was shaking uncontrolably and was nauseous and felt woozy. saw a little sparks infront of my eyes like when I had anemia during pregnancy. I said its impossible from hidden hemmohrage... my heard beated 120 times a minute. but I relaxed myself as I felt fine otherwise. I felt I need to eat something that will help me.. guess what... eggshells!! I asked my dh to eat omelet and give me the eggshells. I started to devour them! than labor got more intense faster I was already 7 - 8 wow!! I said, to be cautious, not to be overjoyed its just 6 cm!! later I felt pressure a little. I sensed I need to poop. I went to the toilet and had alot. but sitting on toilet hurt me like hell, so I got up and got back to the bath!! I sat there, then again that contraction makes me feel need to push. I follow my body, I got to my left, as my left leg folded under me supporting my butt in the air, and my right leg lifted up. and supported myself with hands. every contraction that was ended pushy, I said grrrrr oo-p-e-n! baby kicked I said yeah oh yeah baby you can go out!! I said again: baby, if I am scared, its because of the blood but you are safe to go out if you feel like!! grrrr - oo-p-e-n! I didn't want to swell my cervix. but I thought maybe I am shaking and nauseous so long because cervix is swelled? I lifted my butt to give my cervix break. it helped a bit, but after 1 contraction had to get back to left position at once and it was sooo intense! I just jerked up and said ghhhh!! every 3 minutes non stop. between every contraction felt sleepy. just same like with shalom my first! I said oh well mabe its transition already? I dozed sleeping kneeling fell asleep then another contraction had to go around to the left side position and push little as my body gave small pushes. I checked.. impossible it look same its 6! well I am not trained. so maybe I am more than I think. will just wait with patience! the pushy contractions got more and more intense. I started to push a little in begining of contraction, not just at peak. just did it carefuly like when I try to have bowel movement and having constipation. pushed gently it made the pain less. then it got intense, I felt I have a big poop to push out. I had to lift my butt off the floor!! I pushed HARD as much as my body wanted to. then next contraction right away. it was uncontrolable. i touched down. my anus was bulging. I was thinking yes!!! (remembered Gloria Lemay's article about pushing for first time moms about the anus that buleges signals that head is right there!) I got my hand there. my vagina statted to bulge too. I felt burning! burning!!! I screamed aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!! My 2 year old son, shalom, immediately run to the bathroom! he jumped excitely and said: baby!! baby!! I said yes, baby is coming now!! another contraction that made me push HARD! screamed again: aaaaaaaaahhhhh!! water broke suddenly! then other pop water broke again!! I got stretch more and MORE! aaaaaaaahhhhhh!!! I passed my perinium gently, viola head was out! I panted and panted. I held the head! supported it. then anotehr contraction, I screamed again aaaaaahhhhh! then head turned around fast, body came out! I supported baby with one hand while other hand I supported myself to the left as I lifted my butt away from the floor. I got the baby on my stomach... I still ohh ahhed ohhh!! shalom said: baby!! baby!! all bath was bloody. I saw it was not so bad bleeding. passed large clots. baby was crying and crying.. protesting.. so I got the baby under water with head out to keep her warm. she was shivering. oh boy! I tried to nurse her. she wasn't interested. I looked in my watch I put on the bath. baby was born in 11:20 am! then I said ohh and looked between her legs. it was indeed, a girl as I guessed! just after 40 minutes my husband came into bathroom. he said what happen?! I showed him the baby. he said oh I can't believe it!! just after 50 minutes I felt pushy again, pushed out the placenta. my dh said eww! the placenta indeed looked damaged. alot of clots all over. in these places it was detached I guess!! so that birth was instead of interventions and c section who knows!! and - I think i have no tear! no need for stitches! baby's head is 13 inches. I think its 28 cm. looks like its 5 - 6 lb. (2 - 3 kg) not bad. but a 3 week early baby who was covered with vernix is easy to get cold. need to be covered.. doen't nurse so well, so i squeeze colstrum to baby's mouth and nurse as she suckles 3 times.. hope it will improve. I guess will have to go nursing consultant to make sure no plm. will see tmw. and will check up with doctor for the formal papers and confirmation baby is ok.. and my family who dont' know yet will not worry too much after have the doctor to confirm baby's ok. still looking for a doctor who will check up. one doctor wanted us to call 911 and go to the hospital. no way! and I dont' feel so weak like loss blood like with shalom in hospital. that is a big difference! we cut the cord after 2 hours and half when it was cold and limp and empty. because were very awkward to handle baby and placenta. the cord is short. good reason placenta was low, lol! will bury the placenta in backyard. |
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תגובות נוספות
| 13/2/2004 1:36 | אהווו.... שרה. המון מזל טוב - הגר |  |
| 13/2/2004 1:50 | wow מדהים! המון מזל טוב ! (ל"ת) - orna | |
| 13/2/2004 3:25 | Congratulations!!!!!!!! (ל"ת) - Masha | |
| 13/2/2004 7:49 | המון מזל טוב, ושימשיך רק בטוב. (ל"ת) - יסמין | |
| 13/2/2004 8:2 | שרה יקרה, ברכות חמות לך ולמשפחתך! איך תקראו לקטנה? (ל"ת) - הוטיקה | |
| 13/2/2004 8:7 | שרה יקרה - סיס | |
| 13/2/2004 8:9 | שרה - איזה סיפור! מזל טוב! (ל"ת) - עדי אמא של יובל | |
| 13/2/2004 8:16 | שרה! מזל טוב! (ל"ת) - דניאלה | |
| 13/2/2004 8:43 | שרה, המון המון מזל טוב!! איזו לידה מדהימה! - ד"ר ליבוביץ | |
| 13/2/2004 10:7 | שרה, המון מזל טוב! שיהיה קל לארבעתכם! (ל"ת) - עתליה | |
| 13/2/2004 10:52 | מזל טוב!!!!!!!!! (ל"ת) - לירון | |
| 13/2/2004 11:40 | מזל טוב!!! מה אומר שלום על אחותו הקטנה? איזה שם בחרתם לה? (ל"ת) - דבי | |
| 13/2/2004 12:15 | שרה, המון מזל טוב, לך ולמשפחתך! (ל"ת) - נונה | |
| 13/2/2004 15:3 | מזל טוב והמון בריאות..... (ל"ת) - לירון של שקד הדר ויערה | |
| 13/2/2004 17:4 | שרה, אם לא הייתי מכירה אותך (מכאן) לא הייתי מאמינה שמדובר בסיפור אמיתי - annat | |
| 13/2/2004 17:32 | אם יש כאן מישהי בפורום עם כזה אומץ, שתקליד (תקום...) - Tamara | |
| 13/2/2004 20:36 | תיארתי לעצמי שמישהי לא תאהב את הברכות שלי. - ד"ר ליבוביץ | |
| 13/2/2004 23:15 | שרה - לידה חבל על הזמן... מזל טוב!!! - סאלוש | |
| 14/2/2004 3:9 | וואוו.... אני חסרת מילים.... - קרן (אחרת) | |
| 14/2/2004 10:14 | לשרה - הרבה מזל טוב! לידה מדהימה ומוטרפת, אבל לא יכולתי לצפת ממך לפחות מזה... :-)) הרבה אושר!!! (ל"ת) - המדווחת | |
| 14/2/2004 10:46 | שרה, המון מזל טוב! - איימי | |
| 14/2/2004 15:30 | שרה - לידה יוצאת דופן לאשה יוצאת דופן. מזל טוב אושר ושמחה! (ל"ת) - מירי2 | |
| 14/2/2004 16:22 | Congrats!!! Did you really eat eggshells? (ל"ת) - jo | |
| 14/2/2004 17:25 | הרבה נחת ואושר (וענין בחיים)! (ל"ת) - HILLA | |
| 15/2/2004 5:52 | anat-הוצאת לי את המלים מהפה (אחת אחת) וגם אהבתי את תשובתך, ד"ר ליבוביץ, ולשרה - אמא11 | |
| 15/2/2004 13:57 | לשרה ובני משפחתה - מזל טוב (ל"ת) - ריקי | |
| 15/2/2004 21:26 | לשרה הנפלאה, מזל טוב, מזל טוב, מזל טוב! - רינת של עידן | |