Dear Natalie, Birth is a woman's affair, and this is your body and you should be assertive in your needs and desires. You should have him speak with other husbands who 's children were born at home, and he can read the section on homebirth with the research and statistics in Hebrew. I would be happy to meet with him and you and discuss issues, but I do believe that it should be your decision.Giving birth is such a strictly feminine thing, and a woman must birth where she feels safe, protected, nurtured, and intimate. Ask him if he could have an erection with many strangers coming in and out of the room, picking up the sheet and looking to see if his penis was hard enough fast enough, while attached to an IV and a monitor. Maybe he will understand. Ilana Shemesh
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