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8/11/2004 09:02
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tatah
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so sorry that you have to go through this
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There is really nothing to add to what drorit said, it is such a great message, so I will leave you with a real story.x
We were so worried about everyone else when our baby died - I guess this is a way of denial, but nevermind - especially we were worried about my little nephews that asked faithfully about the coming child in every opportunity.x
their mother is a child psychologist herself so she gave them a short, clear explanation, and waited to see what happens. The little one was around two years old then and he did not really notice that something had changed. The older one - around four - came up with his own explanation for what happened and his own solution - "she will get a big tummy again someday and the baby will be born". Note that their mother would never have chosen this explanation, she simply let him come up with it on his own.x
All the best in this difficult time,x
tatah
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